But you know , that is just a very rare story to this day . Parents , India , Asia Europe , I mean , Africa , I mean , it is , it is the great disservice that parents are doing to their Children and they don't realize that they think they're helping . And so it comes from a good place , but it is created a lot of voter grudge towards them .
And I kind of when you say that I also just kind of feel guilty about it because I know that I have some of that as well . By the way , all of us do , you can't be a human being without expecting things from your parents . Yeah .
The uh that's the other thing , it's like the other thing I'm thinking a lot about is like , all right , I went to the Ivy League school but let me live my life and it's like , where do parents , they , they really need to find their , their way in letting their kids live their lives . Which is really interesting because when I speak to the parents , which it happens multiple times a year that are doing this to the Children , their parents did it to them . Right .
You did that . Were your pa did your parents struggle in that transition when you were ready to do something for yourself or were they fulfilled ? The uh that's the other thing , it's like the other thing I'm thinking a lot about is like , all right , I went to the Ivy League school but let me live my life and it's like , where do parents , they , they really need to find their , their way in letting their kids live their lives .
But then I realized I never really risked um doing something that I truly felt passionate about because I was afraid of failing it at it . But also I was afraid of um my parents and their disappointing parents , especially immigrant parents in a US environment is , is one of the biggest things I focus on because I got so fortunate because I was an immigrant . But my mother gave me the freedom to be myself and it led to so much good , both emotional and professional success .
