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Investing in others is a valuable piece of advice that you have received. It's great that you recognize the importance of getting to know those around you, especially during your college journey. By bringing others into your circle and lifting them up, you can create a supportive network that benefits everyone. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and focus on your journey, but also remember the value of investing in the people around you. This can lead to positive relationships, personal growth, and opportunities for everyone involved. Keep pushing yourself to have those uncomfortable interactions and allowing others to get to know you – it will surely benefit you and others in the long run.

Ava Goodin | Northwestern Soccer

I'm at Northwestern University , and I'm on the women's soccer team here . The best advice I've gotten from my mentors and coaches is to continue to invest in those around me . Um , I've learned investing in myself is , is very important , and I especially , um , in that transition into college , that initial journey to get here can feel very , I would say individualistic at times where it's about you getting to this next level .

Ava Goodin | Northwestern Soccer

The best advice I've gotten from my mentors and coaches is to continue to invest in those around me . Um , I've learned investing in myself is , is very important , and I especially , um , in that transition into college , that initial journey to get here can feel very , I would say individualistic at times where it's about you getting to this next level . But once you get here and you're surrounded by people who are at the same level as you , playing for a bigger purpose , um , I've learned trying to cast as many people under your net as possible , um , especially on this journey , uh , to hopefully reach a higher level for me , um , in terms of professional .

Ava Goodin | Northwestern Soccer

Um , but pushing yourself to have those uncomfortable interactions in your recruiting process and allowing others to get to know you . And you going out of your way to get to know others as much as possible will , I think benefit you a lot in the long run . Well , that answer changed a lot through my recruiting process and why do I want to play , where do I want to play .

Ava Goodin | Northwestern Soccer

But I know in situations like when I'm being recruited , it's going to benefit me and others the most . If I put the effort in to interact and the others get to know me . I'm an intern , I'll get to know them and personality wise , just really getting a feel for each school , the staff , the team , um , for me , like culture was one of the top things um coming in into this program , because there are a lot of things that can change and be adjusted once you get to a program .

Ava Goodin | Northwestern Soccer

But I think it's being able to acknowledge that it's impossible to put everything in in one basket . And that's something I've learned the hard way , is trying to do everything all at once , and that can lead to just burn out , feeling overwhelmed , and up failing more overall in all those areas , um , rather than being able to , I think , to be mature enough to say no to things , be like , no , I can't do this right now , or You know , this is going to have to take a hit for right now , but I know in the future , I can reinvest in this area of my life . But , um , I think especially when you have big goals and do you want to reach , um , levels of playing professionally , um , reaching that big career that's in a really competitive environment , I think it's being able to recognize that things are , are going to have to give , and it can be hard to make those choices .