They don't hardly at all . So when they see an adult with ADHD or depression or addiction or , or , or , or bipolar conditions or , or , uh , or for that matter , autoimmune illness or anything else , they don't think of trauma . They just think of this disease and they think that the diagnosis explains everything , but the diagnosis don't explain anything because think about it , let's say go or , or Joe goes to a doctor and uh they , they're diagnosed with a DH D .
So remember I talked about those brain circuits of lust and care and rage and uh and , and , and , and seeking and so on one of the brain circuits that we have is described by a very prominent late neuroscientist yak banks is for panic and grief , panic and grief are the normal responses of the young human being or the young animal when care isn't available . So when the parents are stressed , distracted economically or politically or because of their own unresolved trauma or whatever is going on in their lives and they don't respond to the child's distress . They don't pick up the child when they're crying , they make the child be alone .
So the the most salient feature of the environment that shapes the circuit of the human brain is actually the relationship with the parents . And if the parents are present and emotionally attuned and available child brains develop properly . But the parents are stressed , the child absorbs the stress .
I was just watching this very disturbing commercial um , yesterday with Children and it was talking about a DH D and it showed a kid that was not paying attention in class and it showed these kids like playing around and doing things they weren't supposed to be doing . And then they introduced this medication and then you have the child raising their hand and then you have everyone clapping and you have the child with a big smile on their face and you've medicated your child to be a successful and integrated person in society . I shall I sp off about a DH DF please .
And if the parents are present and emotionally attuned and available child brains develop properly . But the parents are stressed , the child absorbs the stress . What can they do with it ?
