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The idea of earning happiness is a common belief, where happiness is seen as a reward for hard work or overcoming challenges. It's a concept that many people, like your son, may believe in. However, it's important to remember that happiness is not always linked to external achievements or efforts. True happiness can also be found in simple moments and in our state of mind. It's an interesting concept worth exploring further.

Finding Happiness with Rob Mack

So , so Rob my , my son believes you can't have happiness or a reward , a pleasure , a bliss , whatever label of joy until you've done some work until you've had some pain , until you've exerted some energy that's been difficult or challenging or hard or physical or mental and then you're rewarded with the , the happiness , the joy . How do you feel about that as a , as a concept that you have to earn your happiness ? Yeah .

Finding Happiness with Rob Mack

Absolutely . You know , the challenge I think for most of us is that we think of happiness as something that we need to achieve or accomplish or acquire . But my experience , my life experience and the education I've taken has sort of let me know and taught me that happiness isn't what you seek .

Finding Happiness with Rob Mack

So I'm gonna answer that at different levels , right ? And so much of this conversation and conversations about happiness really are conversations that come down to a concept . We , we sort of pay a concession to language , right ?

Finding Happiness with Rob Mack

So call it what you want , but just do your best to try to experience it . So , so Rob my , my son believes you can't have happiness or a reward , a pleasure , a bliss , whatever label of joy until you've done some work until you've had some pain , until you've exerted some energy that's been difficult or challenging or hard or physical or mental and then you're rewarded with the , the happiness , the joy . How do you feel about that as a , as a concept that you have to earn your happiness ?

Finding Happiness with Rob Mack

I'm , I'm very intrigued . Happiness is what you don't think . Happiness is not a state of mind .