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The concept of earning happiness is a common belief, and it suggests that happiness is a reward for hard work, pain, or challenges. It's an idea that many people, including your son, hold dear. The perspective is that happiness is something that follows effort and perseverance. However, it's important to remember that happiness is not solely derived from external achievements or challenges overcome. It's also a state of mind and can be found in simple pleasures and moments of joy. It's interesting to consider this concept alongside the idea that children are often closer to the source of happiness, suggesting that it may be more accessible and simpler than we make it out to be.

Finding Happiness with Rob Mack

So , so Rob my , my son believes you can't have happiness or a reward , a pleasure , a bliss , whatever label of joy until you've done some work until you've had some pain , until you've exerted some energy that's been difficult or challenging or hard or physical or mental and then you're rewarded with the , the happiness , the joy . How do you feel about that as a , as a concept that you have to earn your happiness ? Yeah .

Finding Happiness with Rob Mack

Absolutely . You know , the challenge I think for most of us is that we think of happiness as something that we need to achieve or accomplish or acquire . But my experience , my life experience and the education I've taken has sort of let me know and taught me that happiness isn't what you seek .

Finding Happiness with Rob Mack

So I'm gonna answer that at different levels , right ? And so much of this conversation and conversations about happiness really are conversations that come down to a concept . We , we sort of pay a concession to language , right ?

Finding Happiness with Rob Mack

So call it what you want , but just do your best to try to experience it . So , so Rob my , my son believes you can't have happiness or a reward , a pleasure , a bliss , whatever label of joy until you've done some work until you've had some pain , until you've exerted some energy that's been difficult or challenging or hard or physical or mental and then you're rewarded with the , the happiness , the joy . How do you feel about that as a , as a concept that you have to earn your happiness ?

Finding Happiness with Rob Mack

I'm , I'm very intrigued . Happiness is what you don't think . Happiness is not a state of mind .