But as I listened and as I did my best to help these folks , I found out very quickly discovered very quickly that we all live these lives that are based on these flawed or false premises . And I began to sort of collect those flawed or flaw false present premises because I knew one day I would want to sort of share what I was discovering around the truth of those things , around the truth of these myths , misconceptions , around love and happiness . And so first , I want to share a little bit of the research on the positive psychology field that uh test to how important it is to be happy .
What did I know about dating and love and relationships ? But as I listened and as I did my best to help these folks , I found out very quickly discovered very quickly that we all live these lives that are based on these flawed or false premises . And I began to sort of collect those flawed or flaw false present premises because I knew one day I would want to sort of share what I was discovering around the truth of those things , around the truth of these myths , misconceptions , around love and happiness .
Ok ? There is an easier lazier , smarter way to enjoy the peace , love and happiness that you ultimately are and that's by going directly to the source for it . Instead of rounding it through middle people , middle women , middle men and middle experiences , middle activities .
We should all know that when you make about 100 and $25,000 a year , it's in US D you begin to flatline and experience what we call the diminishing marginal utility of the dollar . Basically , you get less happiness . Bang for your buck , right .
So parental success doesn't lead to happiness . Um Believe it or not , the first child actually causes a dip in your happiness level . And the second child causes a statistically significant dip in your happiness level and your happiness doesn't return to its baseline level until those kids leave the house .
