GDL Kimmy Seltzer

Like , like , uh let's move , let's let's move a little slower . Just be really present and work on building an emotional connection with someone and see how that is for you because that's why the dating process is so important . People don't realize what you're really doing is you're dating yourself and you're getting to know yourself and because people are just so wanting the relationship and the fantasy and the kids and the fan , like what you just said , they're losing sight of what is right for them .

GDL Kimmy Seltzer

What do you want a family right now ? What you want out of a relationship ? You , do you want a family in a team ?

GDL Kimmy Seltzer

That's why I didn't like , I , I'm all about that . So maybe I love relationships . I Yeah .

GDL Kimmy Seltzer

It's more consistent over time . You're really building trust and intimacy and usually between that phase and then the final phase , which is full blown committed relationship sometimes like , and it sounds like there's a breakdown between the first and the third . Yeah .

GDL Kimmy Seltzer

You , do you want a family in a team ? Like , do you want a relationship though right now ? Yeah .