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When it comes to sports recruitment, it's common for coaches to initially focus on physical attributes such as height. However, as you mentioned, being recruited is about more than just your skill or physical attributes. It's important to find a program that cares about who you are as a person, both on and off the field. It's great that your club emphasized this and showed that being recruited is about more than just your physical abilities. It's also important to find a school or program where the coaches truly care about you as a person, not just as an athlete. Building strong relationships with teammates and others in the industry can also be beneficial for your future in sports and beyond. Remember to choose a school that makes you feel welcomed and valued as an individual.

Shaliyah Rhoden | Providence Volleyball

I am a undersized hitter , so I'm 58 and usually , um , you see at least people that are at least 5 , 10 and above , um , planning my position . Um , so being recruited , um , I feel like I thought I had a disadvantage because a lot of coaches just like to look for height at first because you know , that stuff you just can't teach . Um , but something that I knew that I had to get over , just like having that disadvantage .

Shaliyah Rhoden | Providence Volleyball

Um So when I was looking for a college , I just wanted to go somewhere where I felt welcomed and if something were to happen to me , like getting hurt where I knew I wasn't gonna be treated any kind of differently . Um So I feel like that's like something to really look out for when you're doing a recruiting is am I gonna be taken care of ? Um , because you are away from home even if you're close or far .

Shaliyah Rhoden | Providence Volleyball

Um , I think it's something that I really overcome based off of , um , having that disadvantage . Um , our club did really good at just showing us that being recruited is more , more than your skill . It's about your personality and how you carry yourself .

Shaliyah Rhoden | Providence Volleyball

Um , it really stands out and then it catches like a coach's eye and then eventually they'll see how you play . And I think that's like a huge thing to do when you're getting recruited . So I would say , um , because you're going to , if you're going to be a student athlete , going to a school where the coaches truly care for who you are outside of your sport .

Shaliyah Rhoden | Providence Volleyball

So I would say the best advice is just honestly just trusting the process . Um , sports is such a growth , um , like opportunity to just be a better uh player , a better person . So just trusting the process and every step of your career is probably the best advice that I've gotten and just knowing that all the hard work does pay off and , um , but it just takes time .