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It sounds like you may be concerned about being recruited based on factors like height, or feeling that your skill is being overlooked. Remember that recruitment is about more than just physical attributes or skill level. As you mentioned, it's also about finding a school and coaches who truly care about you as a person, both on and off the field. It's great that your club has emphasized this to you. When considering recruitment, it's important to find a school where you feel welcomed and valued as an individual, not just as an athlete. Developing relationships with coaches and teammates is crucial, and it seems like your school has been helpful in connecting you with opportunities to work with different brands and companies, which can be beneficial for your future. Ultimately, the recruiting process should be about finding a program and environment where you can grow as a player and a person, and where you feel supported in all aspects of your life. Keep focusing on both your athletic and personal development, and look for a school that will prioritize your growth as a whole individual.

Shaliyah Rhoden | Providence Volleyball

I am a undersized hitter , so I'm 58 and usually , um , you see at least people that are at least 5 , 10 and above , um , planning my position . Um , so being recruited , um , I feel like I thought I had a disadvantage because a lot of coaches just like to look for height at first because you know , that stuff you just can't teach . Um , but something that I knew that I had to get over , just like having that disadvantage .

Shaliyah Rhoden | Providence Volleyball

Um So when I was looking for a college , I just wanted to go somewhere where I felt welcomed and if something were to happen to me , like getting hurt where I knew I wasn't gonna be treated any kind of differently . Um So I feel like that's like something to really look out for when you're doing a recruiting is am I gonna be taken care of ? Um , because you are away from home even if you're close or far .

Shaliyah Rhoden | Providence Volleyball

Um , I think it's something that I really overcome based off of , um , having that disadvantage . Um , our club did really good at just showing us that being recruited is more , more than your skill . It's about your personality and how you carry yourself .

Shaliyah Rhoden | Providence Volleyball

Um , it really stands out and then it catches like a coach's eye and then eventually they'll see how you play . And I think that's like a huge thing to do when you're getting recruited . So I would say , um , because you're going to , if you're going to be a student athlete , going to a school where the coaches truly care for who you are outside of your sport .

Shaliyah Rhoden | Providence Volleyball

So I would say the best advice is just honestly just trusting the process . Um , sports is such a growth , um , like opportunity to just be a better uh player , a better person . So just trusting the process and every step of your career is probably the best advice that I've gotten and just knowing that all the hard work does pay off and , um , but it just takes time .