It's another mirror , you know how we speak about marrying one another . So at this point you have teenagers in your life and for the most part you wake up and you mirror yourself at that age and who you were and who you aren't and how you're at 49 and going through different stages in life and , you know , being a single parent , they have their father , um , very much involved but navigating through that and having to mirror these teenagers , um , I either want to go back to the gym for another eight hours . I just , and then just sit and breathe and realize this , that's their journey .
What are we doing here ? And I asked that question and I , and I have two Children and they're teenagers . Thank you .
And it's hard for me to being raised like I was , and my father was an incredibly humble giving , generous kind came from nothing went into the , you know , has his own story . So I was raised really incredibly well . So I had a , I had a choice there and of course , we make our choices as we go along .
And so the past is the past and that's my story and I can sit in it or I can be present and really change that energy and shift it and make happen , you know . So yeah , it's I I think growing up as Vida's daughter and having gone on the housewives , which was really a huge experience of growth . Um , some , something that someone like me never wants to do .
I just , and then just sit and breathe and realize this , that's their journey . I brought them here to make their own choices . It has nothing to do with me at all .
