But if you look , if you look for what we're trying to learn from them of like , what did you do that I can learn from ? It's all regret , brother . You will be far more scared to wake up one day and say , why didn't I go for being a piano star ?
When you are 90 you rarely talk about what you did . You always talk about what you didn't do if you were lucky enough .
I wish I spent more time with my kids . That hit me hard when I started doing this in my thirties , forties . That was like , I'm like , that's the one that , that's my danger .
The moments we have here are small . One thing I would recommend to everyone in this room to do as an action is to spend a lot more time with 80 to 100 year olds that are not your family members . If anyone here can find the luxury of maybe living close to a retirement home and providing some service to it , maybe you have a neighbor for me .
You always talk about what you didn't do if you were lucky enough . And if you wanted to get inspired to spend just a little time with a 75 to 90 year old that you don't know and you listen , what she or he will talk about is what they didn't do . I should have married Ricky Thompson .
